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  • You're in the process of preparing for your divorce. This is an important, emotional, and challenging transition for you and your family. Our VvCP members will be happy to advise you about your options for extra support to make this transition in the best way possible, while still maintaining family ties, financial resources, and quality of life. There are multiple ways to separate. The kind of separation you choose determines the nature and pace of your separation. In order to be able to give you advice, we kindly ask you to answer the questions in our questionnaire. Please do not think too much about the answers, just choose the first answer that comes to mind. On a scale of 1 to 10, please select the answer that best suits your current situation.

Origins

The origins of the collaborative divorce

Collaborative separation

Collaborative divorce originated in the United States. Founder Stu Webb had been involved in family law for over 20 years, when mediation attracted his attention in the late 1980s. He wanted to find a way to use the talents of family law attorneys in a different way. Stu’s goal was to create a model in which attorneys never have to go to court for proceedings, but the divorce process takes place in a collaborative practice, under the guidance of specialised attorneys. According to Stu, parties who split up or couples who get divorced should consult with each other if going to court is not an option.

 

Creative solutions

Based on his insights, Stu Webb set up the Collaborative Practice. In 1990, he told his clients that his firm would no longer be going to court for legal proceedings. He would only be taking on clients who were willing to divorce collaboratively and look for creative solutions. If this did not lead to the best outcome, he referred clients to another attorney.

 

Divorce, business separation and conflict resolution

Both the collaborative divorce and the collaborative practice originated in this way. The Stu method has been used in the Netherlands since 2008, where it is referred to as ‘overlegscheiden’ and ‘overlegpraktijk’. The collaborative practice is aimed at resolving disputes, both privately and professionally. Here, too, we do not see recourse to the courts for legal proceedings as an option.

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Who is it for?
Collaborative Divorce
What is it?
Collaborative practice

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